Life at Love How Deep


Life at Love How Deep

Dear Friends,

As summer comes to a close do you find yourself looking back and wondering if it measured up to the hopes that you had? Was it everything you wanted it to be? Did you find time to relax? Did you make time to spend with your spouse? What about family time? Did you stay so busy that you don't know where summer went?

We fall into the camp of staying so busy that we wonder if summer happened! For us, summer looked very different this year and we recently reminisced about all we did.

We found that different does not equal bad!

I challenge you to look over your summer and see all the things you did, all that happened. It may not have been what you expected but surely there were good memories made, lessons learned, changes that happened. Choose to focus on the positive things in life!

With Love,

B&H


In the Spotlight

Brian and Heather were blessed to speak at the Couples Retreat at Calvary Baptist Church in Staunton, VA. The couples engaged in the Forgiveness Experience, a dinner date, and completed the evening with coffee, dessert, and live music by Mark Cable. Couples spent the day leaning into God, pouring into their marriages, and spending quality time together.

The next day Brian and Heather had the incredible privilege to speak at Village Church in Swoope, VA on Making It Through The Mess: Two Directions of Healing. They spoke to the congregation about healing from the messes that happen in life. This can be found on their Youtube channel or click the button below.


In Love...


Two New Things...

Do you know a pastor or church leader who would be interested in learning more about Love How Deep and what we offer? Our website is updated with a new page showcasing all we do.

Dynamic keynotes, interactive workshops, and full-day marriage conferences designed for your church. Led live by Brian & Heather Mayer—bringing expert guidance, biblical truth, and hands-on experiences directly to your congregation.

We would like to connect with anyone searching for marriage events, seminars, and speaking engagements at their church. How can you help?

  • Send us an email with information
  • Send this link to the church leader

The Marriage Strategy Session is for anyone wishing for a tune up in your marriage. Get a personalized strategy for strengthening your marriage, understanding each other better, and becoming more intentional about where you're going together. We value the opportunity to help you grow closer together. Click on the link to learn more.


Coming Soon

Weekend to Remember is for ANYONE!!! This is a special time to refocus and reconnect in your marriage. Think of it as a tune up for your car! Use the Group Code: LoveHowDeep and Promo Code: SAVE50 and get half off registration. That's an incredible deal! This special is good for ANY of the WtR locations, not just the one featured below.

Weekend to Remember

November 20-22, 2026

Williamsburg, VA


$175 per couple

https://www.lovehowdeep.com/

brianandheather@lovehowdeep.com

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